You're allowed to want more.
To love more fully. To be fully seen in it.
Hi, I’m Ruxandra.
I coach relationships that actually work, whatever shape they take, from lived experience, not a textbook.
I support people through the relationships that actually matter to them, romantic, sexual, with themselves, no matter the shape they take. Not "fix your communication" coaching. The real stuff: what you want, what you're afraid to ask for, why you keep ending up in the same pattern, what it would mean to actually be seen.
We work 1:1, with my attention in both the conscious and somatic side of things (yes, your body is in the room too). Some people come with a specific question. Some come because something's been quietly off for a while and they can't name it yet. Both are the right reason to start.
What you walk away with: language for what you actually want, more capacity to ask for it, and a relationship with yourself that doesn't collapse the second things get uncomfortable.
About me
A techie, a psychology nerd, a painter, singer, foodie, adrenaline junkie ... the list goes on, but at my essence I'm endlessly curious about humans. What makes people tick, what they want and are afraid to say out loud, how they love. No topic is too taboo or off-limits for me, and I've yet to meet the story that's just black or white. The canvas is always more colorful than that and that's exactly where the interesting stuff lives!
Originally from the beautiful Transylvania, Romania, I moved to Amsterdam in 2016 chasing "more" and "different". I got both, and then some. Love across cultures, relationships that didn't fit any template I'd been handed, a dating scene that rewrote my assumptions more than once. I'm not vanilla, in how I live or how I coach, and I've learned that the parts of yourself you think are "too much" are usually the most interesting place to start.
That's the lens I bring into every session. Not theory, not a framework I read about, lived experience, and a coach who can hold whatever shape your story takes. I work with people who are hungry for more in how they love, who know "good enough" stopped being good enough a while ago.
Are you one of them?
P.S.: Yes, I also know the theory, as a professionally trained and accredited coach.
Work with me
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If you have any questions, need guidance, or simply want to chat.